'There are legitimate grounds for hope in hard times, but not one speck of ground for wishful thinking […]. hope, comes from doing the things before us that need to be done in the sprit of thankfulness and celebration, without worrying about whether we will win or lose’ D.Orr
... reversal of roles again; adults regress to childish games, whilst a child demonstrates leadership. Parenthood is surely about much more than just doing what’s convenient. It’s about time us grown-ups grew up!